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Work, children, stress, social responsibilities, household duties leave us a very less time and energy to sit and talk with our partner. When your wife asks you after you return from a long day’s hard work that how was your day and what happened throughout, you tend to get irritated. The reply often comes as “hmm, nothing special” or “it was as usual”. We never try to take that conversation too long because we lack in energy.

When you are sitting in front of the television in a day off and watching your favorite soccer or cricket tournament, your wife comes and asks for something, you do speak with her but never listen to what she is trying to say or even never bother to look at her.

Sometimes when your wife calls you at work you get irritated. Just answer to few questions and then say, “love you honey, bye”. Have you ever tried to remember and compare the situation with past? The days when you met for the first time or when you were going around?

Human mind always get accustomed with the general happenings of the regular life. So after marriage when you start staying together, your brain gets accustomed with the day to day incidents and the faces you are seeing everyday. This does not mean you are bored with your wife and don’t love her or care for her any more.

Try to spend some quality time with your wife at least once a week. Be alone, this means no children, no parents, no friends or colleagues.  Try to show and express your love and care for her. Go for an outing, dinner or even for a movie. Try to listen to her and reply promptly. It is true that your brain controls your behavior but there is something which controls the brain functions as well, its your will power.